It's that time of year again for all the mega buck spending, present wrapping, and eating too bloody much! Yes, that's right….it's nearly Christmas in less than 5 weeks time.
I love the fact that my child is so happy at Christmas time and I love to spoil her rotten. But honestly when I walk through the shops I feel like bashing my head against a brick all. All those carols all that tinsel…..how can people possibly be so happy at this time of year? For me, I see mess, rushing, maxing out the credit card, tantrums, eating too much, carols all day long aghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!! Somebody shoot me!
*big sigh* again I want to iterate, I love my child and will please her no matter how much hair I will pull out over Christmas. But you know sometimes…..Id like to just curl into a ball and sleep the day out.
T xx
Sunday, 20 November 2011
Saturday, 1 October 2011
Selfishness…...
So I admit it, I can be selfish sometimes more than I like to admit I am. I try not to be, and I'm really trying to work on it.
I like to try and do 1 thing every 2 weeks for myself, whether that may be, buying myself a DVD, or making myself something yummy to eat. Now all good n well, but when you throw children into the mix this becomes so hard and it makes me feel awful.
I never want to be the parent that thinks of themself before their children, nor do I wish to have my child feel asthough they come second place in my life. I love my child more than anything in this world, sometimes I just want time for me? Is that so bad? Sometimes it makes me feel awful for wanting that, and sometimes…..well most of the time I don't get what I need. I always try and provide the best I can for my child and being a single person with having a child makes things even harder too.
I have been told that I am not a "single" person, well technically I am and I'm not. I don't have a significant other in my life at this time, but I have the most important person I could ever wish to have in it….my daughter. It makes things really hard sometimes being a single parent and not being able to do what you want to do…..not that I regret choices I have made….I regret NOTHING.
Just sometimes I feel too selfish for my liking…
T xx
I like to try and do 1 thing every 2 weeks for myself, whether that may be, buying myself a DVD, or making myself something yummy to eat. Now all good n well, but when you throw children into the mix this becomes so hard and it makes me feel awful.
I never want to be the parent that thinks of themself before their children, nor do I wish to have my child feel asthough they come second place in my life. I love my child more than anything in this world, sometimes I just want time for me? Is that so bad? Sometimes it makes me feel awful for wanting that, and sometimes…..well most of the time I don't get what I need. I always try and provide the best I can for my child and being a single person with having a child makes things even harder too.
I have been told that I am not a "single" person, well technically I am and I'm not. I don't have a significant other in my life at this time, but I have the most important person I could ever wish to have in it….my daughter. It makes things really hard sometimes being a single parent and not being able to do what you want to do…..not that I regret choices I have made….I regret NOTHING.
Just sometimes I feel too selfish for my liking…
T xx
Wednesday, 28 September 2011
Does size really matter?
I figured Id write about this topic, since I saw a sight on my way home from work today. Now I live in the country and it takes me an hour to drive to and from work. So on my leisurely drive home today I saw a ute pulled up on the side of the road, and a guy standing next to a wheeley bin (rubbish bin) having a pee! He didn't really seem to care, just held his willy out there for everyone to see not trying to hide behind bushes or anything.
And this got me to thinking, does size really matter? Well does it?
Ladies and gents please chime in with your opinions. I think there is some truth to it though, size does matter somewhat. I've experienced both and imo…..bigger was better. No beating around the bush, bigger is the way to go. Now I have done some research into this (I guess I have nothing better to do with my time), and there is a way to fix a small willy! Aparently it's ALL there just "inside" and all it takes is a small snip to release the rest of it, and hey presto….a bigger willy is born.
Some of you fellas might want to research that ;)
T xx
And this got me to thinking, does size really matter? Well does it?
Ladies and gents please chime in with your opinions. I think there is some truth to it though, size does matter somewhat. I've experienced both and imo…..bigger was better. No beating around the bush, bigger is the way to go. Now I have done some research into this (I guess I have nothing better to do with my time), and there is a way to fix a small willy! Aparently it's ALL there just "inside" and all it takes is a small snip to release the rest of it, and hey presto….a bigger willy is born.
Some of you fellas might want to research that ;)
T xx
Monday, 26 September 2011
Plastic vs Natural
Ok, so everyone knows what plastic surgery is right? If you don't you're SO out of the loop….visit wikipedia, it'll be your best friend. I've seen many many many people get plastic surgery done, hell, even I've had it done (but shh). But it's just when those certain kinds of people take it just that little bit too far……….before you know it, they're looking like Jocelyn Wildenstein (again, if you have no idea who that is, wiki is your friend mmkay).
To botox or not to botox this is the question amongst many young women and men these days. The pressure of society to look "perfect" is just a fixation of ones imagination. Plastic surgery was designed to help the physically damaged people of the world, not to make us all look like barbie dolls with breasts up to our chins and eyebrows that don't move when we cry.
I know I'll probably get a few comments about me getting plastic surgery done. And for everyone's information I was 12yrs old, and got teased for looking like a wing nut with sticky out ear. But, I'd have to say I'd do it again, but not for the vanity of it, I'm happy with my face.
It makes you wonder though what ALL these people are going through, mentally and physically, not to mention financially. I guess after having so many face lifts they get used to it, but in my opinion they never look as good as they did before any surgery was done.
T xx
To botox or not to botox this is the question amongst many young women and men these days. The pressure of society to look "perfect" is just a fixation of ones imagination. Plastic surgery was designed to help the physically damaged people of the world, not to make us all look like barbie dolls with breasts up to our chins and eyebrows that don't move when we cry.
I know I'll probably get a few comments about me getting plastic surgery done. And for everyone's information I was 12yrs old, and got teased for looking like a wing nut with sticky out ear. But, I'd have to say I'd do it again, but not for the vanity of it, I'm happy with my face.
It makes you wonder though what ALL these people are going through, mentally and physically, not to mention financially. I guess after having so many face lifts they get used to it, but in my opinion they never look as good as they did before any surgery was done.
T xx
Saturday, 24 September 2011
Family & friends…..
Now, I grew up in a pretty liberal household as a child. I was told about the human body at a young age, and what it does, where babies come from - and that not being the cabbage patch! So, when it came to asking about family as a child I was told the truth. I have gay members of my family and I love them to pieces, as I would any hetrosexual member of my family. The other day I had a friend visit and I guess I was quite shocked by their what I would call "shallow" or "selfish" opinion. Now this came totally out of the blue, we have been friends for about 10+yrs and talked about most things but not this. Their opinion I found personally offensive, their said being gay was "wrong" and that if their children ended up gay they would have no grandchildren. So I took a breath and said that women have no reason to physically be with a man these days with Medical practices to have children with - sperm banks, and the likes. Yet they went on to say it wasn't "natural" and it was "wrong".
Now don't get me wrong……everyone is entitled to their own opinion - tis why we're all individuals. But for me I found this offensive. In MY opinion, who cares what sexual orientation you may be, if you're happy and the person you're with looks after you and is there for you…….what is the problem?!?!?!?!?!? Society these days are expecting gay people to come right out in the open with their orientation, what the hell for? So they can be judged by the narrow minded and shallow people of this world? No wonder half of the gay population still hasn't come out of the closet. In some places of the world STILL gay people will be physically harmed for being the way that they're born, and that is just not right.
What do you all think? Have you been in a position where you have been judged for your sexual orientation? Or do you have family members that are anti-gay or are infact gay themselves.
Food for thought……
T xx
Now don't get me wrong……everyone is entitled to their own opinion - tis why we're all individuals. But for me I found this offensive. In MY opinion, who cares what sexual orientation you may be, if you're happy and the person you're with looks after you and is there for you…….what is the problem?!?!?!?!?!? Society these days are expecting gay people to come right out in the open with their orientation, what the hell for? So they can be judged by the narrow minded and shallow people of this world? No wonder half of the gay population still hasn't come out of the closet. In some places of the world STILL gay people will be physically harmed for being the way that they're born, and that is just not right.
What do you all think? Have you been in a position where you have been judged for your sexual orientation? Or do you have family members that are anti-gay or are infact gay themselves.
Food for thought……
T xx
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