Friends are an important thing to have in ones life. You can talk to them about most things, and give them advise and other things they may need. But what happens when that friendship becomes sour?
I've had a so called "friend" for the past 6yrs, we have had our ups and downs and sorted through stuff. But thinking now I've come to the last straw. Most things I can forgive, but lies upon lies upon lies? I don't like it, and that's when the whole trust thing goes out of the window. Anyway, this so called friend a few yrs ago lied to me about being married. They had no specific reason for not telling me, but you know getting married is a BIG part of life. Why did they feel like they couldn't share that with me? Because "they" didn't want our relationship to change? Excuse me, we're friends how is marraige going to change that, I would of been MORE than happy for them IF they had told me.
Oh, but it continues………
After nearly a yr of telling me they're "separated" and going to sort things out financially I find out that this is indeed not the case. In fact they still live together (after being told otherwise) and………..just had a baby 1mth ago?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? Am I not a good enough friend to tell this important stuff to? Or am I just chopped liver……..perhaps this might of "changed" our relationship also. A child is a wonderful thing and I am so hurt by the lies and deceipt from my "friend".
I question honesty, and I guess I should choose my friends more wisely…things like this make it hard to trust anyone. And with already having trust issues, it makes things even harder.
All I can say is that I am glad I have NO ONE in my life on a romantic level……because I don't have to worry about whether they're bullshitting me or not. I'm sure that sounds dramatic, but honestly life is too short to put up with people shitting on you let alone your friends doing it.
I am in no way a bitter person, but I feel this post is more of a vent for me.
*rant over*
T xx
